只要不是神仙鬼怪，平凡人的一生不可能总是春风得意。人生最风光、最美妙的时候都是最短暂的。“人无千日好，花无百日红。”就像打牌一样，一个人不能总是得手，一副好牌之后往往就是坏牌的开始。所以，见好就收便是最大的赢家。世故如此，人情也是一样。与人相交，不论是同性知己还是异性朋友，都要有适可而止的心情。君子之交淡如水，既可避免势尽人疏、利尽人散的结局，同时友谊也只有在平淡中方能见出真情。越是形影不离的朋友越容易反目为仇，因此，古人告诫说：“受恩深处宜先退，得意浓时便可休。”即使是恩爱夫妻，日复一日的耳鬓厮磨，也会有爱老情衰的一天。北宋词人秦少游所谓“两情若是长久时，又岂在朝朝暮暮”，不止是对劳燕两地的分居夫妻之心理安慰，更应为终日厮守的男女情侣之醒世忠告。
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